As the holiday season approaches, so does the annual question: Who should I tip—and how much?

And no, tipping isn’t a city in China. It’s a longstanding way to show appreciation to the people who help make our lives easier throughout the year.

We’re taking a lighthearted but practical look at holiday tipping—who deserves a little extra “thank you,” and what’s considered appropriate in today’s world.

Sure, tipping fatigue is real. We’ve all stood at a coffee shop tablet staring down options for a tip on a simple to-go cup. But despite the awkward moments, tipping remains an important part of many workers’ income—and the holidays are the perfect time to acknowledge those who consistently show up for you.

Let’s walk through a few common categories and what most people give.

Tipping Your Personal Care Providers

These are the people who help you look and feel like your best self—your:

• Hairstylist or barber
• Manicurist / pedicurist
• Esthetician

A common rule of thumb:
🎁Tip the cost of one full service as a holiday bonus.

If your haircut normally costs $60, that’s a standard holiday tip. It’s a meaningful gesture and one most professionals greatly appreciate.

For In-Home Support: Nannies, Aides, and Housekeepers

If you have someone who cares for your home or your loved ones, holiday tipping is an especially thoughtful way to recognize their work.

Typical holiday bonus:
🎁One week’s pay

This applies to:

• Nannies
• Home health aides
• Private nurses
• Housekeepers or cleaning services

These roles often involve deep trust, reliability, and emotional investment—making a holiday bonus even more meaningful.

Building Staff (Even if You're Your Own Doorman!)

Not everyone lives in a building with full support staff, but if you do, here’s the common range:

• Doorman: $20–$100 depending on your relationship
• Maintenance or super: $20–$75
• Trash and recycling collectors: $10–$20 each (where permitted—some municipalities prohibit this)

Don’t have a doorman?
Same here—I am my own doorman. But plenty of folks do, and these gestures go a long way.

Drivers, Deliveries, and the Gig Economy

We live in a service-on-demand world, so tipping customs have expanded to include:

• Uber or rideshare drivers: 10–15%
• Regular delivery drivers (especially those who know your dog’s name): A small holiday envelope, often $10–$20

Again, not required—but appreciated.

You Don’t Have to Tip Everyone—Just the People Who Truly Help You All Year

The holidays aren’t about checking boxes—they’re about gratitude.

Take a moment to reflect on:

• Who makes your life easier?
• Who shows up consistently?
• Who goes above and beyond?

Let that guide your holiday tipping decisions. Traditional ranges are helpful, but at the end of the day, generosity is personal.

Final Thoughts

Tipping is one way to say thank you to the people who support you throughout the year. It doesn’t have to be extravagant—just thoughtful.

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Stay warm this holiday season, and take good care.