What Will Your Family Carry Forward? Rethinking the Meaning of Legacy

Matthew Barker |

When you hear the word legacy, what comes to mind?

An inheritance? A family business? A charitable foundation? Maybe having your family name attached to something that lasts well beyond your lifetime?

Legacy means something different to everyone. But a recent milestone in my own family reminded me that a meaningful legacy is about much more than the assets we leave behind.

My wife’s family recently celebrated 100 years of family ownership in their business.

A full century.

The business itself is tangible. You can see it. You can drive past it. You can measure its financial value.

But that's only a small part of what has allowed it to endure for generations.

What Does It Take to Build Something That Lasts 100 Years?

Think about everything that happens over the course of a century.

Economic expansions and recessions. Wars. Inflation. Technological change. New competitors. Changing consumer preferences. Family transitions.

For a family enterprise to survive all of that requires much more than financial success.

It requires judgment, sacrifice, relationships, adaptability and, perhaps most importantly, each generation accepting responsibility for something that began before them and may continue long after them.

That's stewardship.

And you don't need to own a multigenerational business to practice it.

Wealth Is Only One Part of Your Legacy

As wealth advisors, we spend a significant amount of time helping families think about what will eventually happen to their assets.

For families who have accumulated substantial wealth, those decisions can become increasingly complex.

How should assets pass to children and grandchildren? How should trusts be structured? How can taxes be managed? Should charitable organizations be part of the plan? How do you prepare heirs to receive significant wealth responsibly?

Those are important questions.

But there's another question that may be even more important:

What do you hope the next generation carries forward besides the money?

Perhaps it's generosity.

Maybe it's faith, a strong work ethic, entrepreneurship, service to others, or simply treating people well.

Financial capital can be transferred through an estate plan.

Values require something different.

They have to be demonstrated, discussed and intentionally passed along.

Preparing Heirs Is as Important as Preparing Assets

One of the challenges of multigenerational wealth is that families can spend decades carefully preparing assets for the next generation without spending nearly as much time preparing the next generation for the assets.

An estate plan can determine who receives what.

But it can't necessarily explain why.

Why did you build the wealth in the first place?

What sacrifices made it possible?

What responsibilities do you believe accompany it?

What role should philanthropy play?

What family traditions deserve to continue?

Those conversations can become an important part of wealth planning—particularly when significant assets, businesses, real estate or charitable interests will eventually pass to another generation.

Legacy Planning Can Begin During Your Lifetime

Legacy doesn't have to begin when an estate is settled.

In many ways, the most meaningful legacy planning happens while you're still here to participate in it.

You can share family stories.

You can involve children and grandchildren in charitable decisions.

You can explain the thinking behind financial decisions.

You can help the next generation learn how to manage wealth before they're responsible for it.

And you can use your resources today to create experiences, opportunities and impact that you actually get to witness.

For some families, the question eventually shifts from:

"How much will we leave?"

to:

"What can this wealth accomplish—for our family and for others—during our lifetime and beyond?"

That's a much broader definition of legacy.

Final Thought

One hundred years in a family business is an extraordinary accomplishment.

But what makes the milestone meaningful isn't simply that an asset survived for a century.

It's that generation after generation decided there was something worth carrying forward.

We all leave something behind, whether that's substantial financial wealth, a business, family traditions, personal values—or, most likely, some combination of them.

So consider two questions:

What is one thing you hope your family carries forward?

And perhaps more importantly:

What are you doing today to help make sure they do?

A thoughtful wealth plan should address both sides of that equation—preparing your assets for the next generation while helping prepare the next generation for the responsibility that comes with them.